how to distribute attribute n skill point?

is there any guide? wat skill is useful n should add more skill point?
how is my attribute point b added? pls teach me..

generally your gonna want to max your speed stat as soon as you can, so put all your points in speed until max (100)
skills wise it depends on how you would like to play the game

Open Chest, can be useful towards the start when you may get chests from daily gift, you can open these to get low level equipment to start you off with. No need to really level this skill past level 3 as its not very often you will get a level 4+ chest from daily gift

Hidden Attack, more usefull towards the later levels when your attacking people more, but if you arent looking to reset stats down the road i suggest putting points in this

Heal, this is useful if you are going to be using an army predominantly made up of cavalry, can also be useful in battle, if you lose a battle the healed units wont be counted towards any prestige loss. Also can be a saving grace when you forget to command against a fort and u lose a lot of your army

Break Cranny, great for starving people (taking their crops), also good for farming people for resources, but keep in mind people dont usually appreciate being farmed for resources

Convince, i personally hate this skill, i find it rather useless. but if you do choose to use this skill i'd recommed only using it at the start and reseting your skills later down the track. Keep in mind that if someone farms you and their units become convinced, they can just attack you again to kill those units for prestige, so unless you are online to hunt newly convinced units you will more often than not lose prestige due to this

so for starters i'd recommend getting a couple points into Open Chest and Hidden Attack, then choose between Heal or Break Cranny

Well, maxing your speed is the first choice id make... but to max your speed you need to fully max it, otherwise you might face a guy who has 2 tech levels higher (in speed) higher than you and you dont get the first attack.

So to max your speed you need 100 base points, a lvl 15 horse (30 more), a lvl 15 manual (15 more) and lvl 10 tech (30% more) that is what is meant by "maxed speed"

Personally id equal hidden, heal, and break until about level 4, then youl have a good idea on what skills you like the best.... No offense to open chest and convince, but open chest doesnt affect battle, and there are keys... And convince needs traps, which are good for level 7s and below... But then id favor turrets, where convince wont help at all

i m just lvl 12 so how should i add my attribute? speed until how many?
how many should i add in fortune?