... well this is awkward

this is just gonna be hella awkward no matter how i state it so wtf ill just say it straight. there's this one girl that I like, but I'm also friends with her. she's also seems to act like she feels a bit awkward around me recently, also tells me that shes confused and wants some time to think everytime we talk alone (even when I don't even wanna bring up my feelings ( kinda feels like being pushed away. it hurts )) anyhow, is there a way to really just ask her out but not risk our friendship in any way? i do wanna be together with her but i also don't wanna make our current friendship feel extremely awkward. gulp. ive talked to a few friends about it but they cant think of anything. (best i could think of was to say it was a joke if she rejects, but i think she may know me too well to believe its a joke). well anyways that's my awkward summer dilemma.

this is just gonna be hella awkward no matter how i state it so wtf ill just say it straight. there's this one girl that I like, but I'm also friends with her. she's also seems to act like she feels a bit awkward around me recently, also tells me that shes confused and wants some time to think everytime we talk alone (even when I don't even wanna bring up my feelings ( kinda feels like being pushed away. it hurts )) anyhow, is there a way to really just ask her out but not risk our friendship in any way? i do wanna be together with her but i also don't wanna make our current friendship feel extremely awkward. gulp. ive talked to a few friends about it but they cant think of anything. (best i could think of was to say it was a joke if she rejects, but i think she may know me too well to believe its a joke). well anyways that's my awkward summer dilemma.

not the best at advice but:
depends how long you have been with her?
and what does she consider you as just a friend or maybe something more?
if you have been with her for a year or longer you should ask her out

but ya it just depends

Sorry, can't help you here bro...

this is just gonna be hella awkward no matter how i state it so wtf ill just say it straight. there's this one girl that I like, but I'm also friends with her. she's also seems to act like she feels a bit awkward around me recently, also tells me that shes confused and wants some time to think everytime we talk alone (even when I don't even wanna bring up my feelings ( kinda feels like being pushed away. it hurts )) anyhow, is there a way to really just ask her out but not risk our friendship in any way? i do wanna be together with her but i also don't wanna make our current friendship feel extremely awkward. gulp. Ive talked to a few friends about it but they cant think of anything. (best i could think of was to say it was a joke if she rejects, but i think she may know me too well to believe its a joke). well anyways that's my awkward summer dilemma.

Nope. This is not possible. (Sorry to be brutally honest) Lets say she says yes (yay) then you have more than a friendship. Lets say she says no ( ) Then she knows that you want something more, but she doesn't. You know that she doesn't want something more. If she were to want to "stay friends" it would be for completely selfish reasons (as she knows you like her as more than a friend) and it may turn into resentment. Best advice is if you are confident she'll say yes, ask her out. Don't be daft. Look for signs, the way she smiles at you etc. You'll never know until you try though. Is it worth the risk?
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As a side note, this is not to say you could never be friends again. But it may take awhile (if she were to turn you down), perhaps when you find someone else and she realizes that it wouldn't be presumptuous of her to think that you think of her as only a friend.

this is just gonna be hella awkward no matter how i state it so wtf ill just say it straight. there's this one girl that I like, but I'm also friends with her. she's also seems to act like she feels a bit awkward around me recently, also tells me that shes confused and wants some time to think everytime we talk alone (even when I don't even wanna bring up my feelings ( kinda feels like being pushed away. it hurts )) anyhow, is there a way to really just ask her out but not risk our friendship in any way? i do wanna be together with her but i also don't wanna make our current friendship feel extremely awkward. gulp. Ive talked to a few friends about it but they cant think of anything. (best i could think of was to say it was a joke if she rejects, but i think she may know me too well to believe its a joke). well anyways that's my awkward summer dilemma.

Nope. This is not possible. (Sorry to be brutally honest) Lets say she says yes (yay) then you have more than a friendship. Lets say she says no ( ) Then she knows that you want something more, but she doesn't. You know that she doesn't want something more. If she were to want to "stay friends" it would be for completely selfish reasons (as she knows you like her as more than a friend) and it may turn into resentment. Best advice is if you are confident she'll say yes, ask her out. Don't be daft. Look for signs, the way she smiles at you etc. You'll never know until you try though. Is it worth the risk?
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really really wish i listened to u than RO. Alcohol Binge time!!!!

Sorry :l

Sorry :l

np, and somehow the passing off as a joke thing worked. We're still buds

Being a girl myself, I'll tell you that your friendship is sure to be affected if you confess your feelings. There's no way around it. Even if both of you remain as friends.. Awkwardness between the both of you is unavoidable :3

Well... There are plenty of fish in the sea <><
Speaking of which, I need one too <3