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Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 1:35 am
by InShadows
hey well ive known this girl for 3 years now were really good friends hang out a lot and ive fallen in love with her...she has a boyfriend but theyve been fighting a lot lately and he goes to a different school and doesnt text her much anymore...any ideas what i should do here?

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 1:40 am
by K2700
well i am all for keeping girls as friends, so just be 'that' guy thats always there
So far there have been 2 threads on girls.....i think rico should make a thread called "The Love Doctor" and ppl can ask questions there :lol:

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 1:44 am
by InShadows
haha maybe i dont think this was the best place to ask :P
but idk i hate being stuck in the friend zone because once the girl finally notices you its like she starts going back out with the biggest arseholes sorry if thats not allowed

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 1:51 am
by K2700
eh teen relationships never last anyway........gosh that sounded way better in my head.....

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 1:52 am
by InShadows
i know, but still, i guess its experience and its good while it lasts

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 3:40 am
by ashleyrose
probably not much help but what you should do is play it cool till they break up which they probably will soon then ask her out , if she says no then act like it never happen, dont deny it happening to anybody just dont bring it up yourself, also dont worry about how your friendship will never be the same after you do because in most cases it will

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 3:43 am
by Redii
Just do what all the corny Disney movies do, you'll get the girl in the end. The modern trend is currently singing and strange so called dancing.

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 4:59 pm
by Sk8rBones
every girl likes to have that guy thats a great friend, so keep her as a friend and see how things work out

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 10:15 pm
by Shadetale
First of all, ask her friends if she has any possible interest in you (in that way) at all. If not, walk off, discouraged but saved of a lot of trouble. If they say yes, you may have a chance.

But...take this from personal experience, if you really like her and care about her, don't ask her. If she says no, it might be weird for a week or two but it will go back to normal. But if she says yes...that's bad. You may be happy for a few weeks, a month, maybe even a year, but eventually, IT WILL END. Breakups are NEVER mutual, somebody will get hurt. You may never be friends again, and you may possibly be enemies. You might patch up a long time later, but it will never be the same.

Re: Hey all---i need love help

PostPosted: Sat Sep 18, 2010 11:38 pm
by Darkon
Lol shade